Friend Troubless.

Posted: Tue Nov 08, 2005 3:42 pm Post subject: Friend Troubless.

Well. i'm right between my best friends and thier always fighting and they like. always fight and right now thier totally pissed at eachother. they are both calling eachother the person who started it and all that shit. and its reeli bugging me. they are always complaining to me about them and their fights and i'm getting annoyed with oth of them. wut should i do?

Posted: Tue Nov 08, 2005 4:47 pm Post subject:

Hmm, reminds me of my friend and I. Always getting mad at me for no reason, and everyone else agrees with me. Um, perhaps yell at them (with good intentions ), tell them how stupid they are being, that might make them snap back to normal.

Posted: Tue Nov 08, 2005 4:52 pm Post subject:

Maybe you should tell them to chill out and talk it over with them. Tell them you're not going to give one up over the other and spend seperate time with them, so no conflicts occur between them while you're there.

Posted: Tue Nov 08, 2005 5:22 pm Post subject:

lol thanks... but just a while ago one of the friend ( who i shall call friend 1 ) wus like yelling at me cuz i "ditched her" and like shes wus using the F word in like every sentance and wus yelling at me fer spazzing on her? and i tried to apoligize for makeing her think i wus "mad" at her and liek all she has to say is w/e??? and like its no wonder her and my other firend r fighting cuz like... whenever someone tries to fix things all she says is w/e and not in a firendly way either??? it slike an evil way yeww know?? so i wus liek almost crying and called my friend number 2 and i start balling... i have no idea wuts going on in her mind (friend number 1)and i dunno wut to do??

Posted: Wed Nov 09, 2005 1:10 am Post subject:

I'm not sure if its because I have less then 4 hours sleep in the last 3 days but I found your last post really hard to understand...anyway from what I gather it really sounds like this person isn't a really good friend if they can't calmly talk something through with you, without swearing. As for your first post my suggestion would be to explain to both people that you do not want to get involved whatever it is they are fighting about is between them and has nothing to do with you. If either one doesn't understand you not wanting to be in the middle they arent a very good friend.

Posted: Wed Nov 09, 2005 10:47 pm Post subject:

okaii thanks fer yerr help. btw yerr advice etc. did help [Very Happy]

thanks...

Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2005 6:42 pm Post subject:

Glad to help, and just sitting down and talking with the person ( in my experiences ) often helps.

Posted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 4:12 pm Post subject:

You should talk to both of your friends and tell them how you feel, don't keep it all bottled up inside. It always feels good to let it out.

Posted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 4:19 pm Post subject:

Yeah, if you bottle it up, eventually it will explode.

Posted: Thu Nov 17, 2005 5:17 pm Post subject:

like on Arthur [Very Happy]

Well np we're always here to help ya [Smile]

Posted: Sun Nov 27, 2005 6:24 pm Post subject:

that happened to me once when two of my best friends were fighting but we were in grade 2 back then. So i took their hands and made them shake hands =P they laughed like crazy and then they didnt fight again ^_^ although hopefully it helps you just a teeny bit

Posted: Mon Nov 28, 2005 12:00 pm Post subject:

I almost lost my best friend because he was going threw a lot of shit and just didnt know how to handle it so he pushed all his friends away but he was able to work threw it.

Just give people time to work things out. 9 times out of 10 thats the only prob is people need space.