I think that in order to get over someone you have to give it time. Sometimes in oreder to get over the person you have to block them out and do what is best for yourself, and not think about them. Hurting yourself is not the answer, it doesn't do you any good what so ever. I also find that finding a goos friend or good friends to talk to really halps you get over someone special.
"Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional." -- M. Kathleen Casey
One needs the will and the mindset; both one can possess but must have the audacity and mental discipline to acquire. Mental discipline goes a long way.
"The Gods lift those who lift themselves." -- Ronald Moore; William Adama; neo-Battlestar Galactica
_________________ "Memory never recaptures reality. Memory reconstructs. All reconstructions change the original, becoming external frames of reference that inevitably fall short."
-- Frank Herbert; Mentat Handbook; Heretics of Dune
Well, I think taking the time & finding someone new. You can't actually block them out if you see them almost every day or run into them at some point. You can become just friends & move on..
Get a voodoo doll and do the stab stab stabity stab thing Being sure you dont hurt yourself in the process
Oh and listening to empowering woman songs - anything by spice girls, aretha franklin, destiny's child, TLC, En Vogue I could go on
OH GLORIA GAYNOR!! I will survive
_________________ 1,2,3,4
Fatty Thighs Will Be No More
5,6,7,8
That Jacksie''s Looking Great!
"But, I don't think you really can get over someone special"
Especially when you're lonely watching some crappy Hugh Grant film. All you want is that someone special *sighs*
_________________ 1,2,3,4
Fatty Thighs Will Be No More
5,6,7,8
That Jacksie''s Looking Great!
Give yourself time to heal, redirect your thoughts. If you truly cared about someone it won't happen over night and you can't expect it to. I would suggest not rushing into someone else's arms right away because chances are you won't be with them for the right reasons and will just keep continuing the circle.
_________________ “I have as much authority as the Pope, I just don’t have as many people who believe it.” - George Carlin
Give yourself time to heal, redirect your thoughts. If you truly cared about someone it won't happen over night and you can't expect it to. I would suggest not rushing into someone else's arms right away because chances are you won't be with them for the right reasons and will just keep continuing the circle.
i dont think theres really any way to make yourself
get over someone until you naturally stop loving them
or, you find someone else. like my friend went out with
this guy about 6 months ago and shes went out with
tons of dif guys to get over him but she still loves him
and he like hates her. idk how you can love someone who
you never talk to and hates you