Edited by mod: that was really immature, please don't post like that :S
Umm what did he say? I just want to know so I can learn from his mistakes. I mean that in a way, that I may learn something about the rules I didn't know before.
How can you consider it cheating?? If your doing it by yourself, not looking at anything, your basically just touching yourself.. You could consider looking in a mirror cheating on her, but is it?? NO! I could consider scratching my arm cheating, but it isn't... Like really now, you just don't like doing it... But that doesn't make it cheating!
Yeah, I don't see how anyone could really consider it cheating. Unless your partner made it clear to you they didn't want that (and you wanted to remain faithful), which would obviously depend on the seriousness of the relationship I guess.
Back on topic, I guess I do it an average amount of time.. Maybe more, who's to say.
In the summer, it's killer cause I find myself sitting at the computer with nothing to do and all these pop-ups with seductive pictures taunt me and I get overwhelmed
Many people say they cut down in a relationship, I have yet to be in a serious relationship...well any relationship ( ), I'd like to know why some people cut down? I don't see how this action could be considered cheating. So if your girlfriend isn't ready for sex what's wrong with masturbation?
Many people say they cut down in a relationship, I have yet to be in a serious relationship...well any relationship ( ), I'd like to know why some people cut down? I don't see how this action could be considered cheating. So if your girlfriend isn't ready for sex what's wrong with masturbation?
Would like to hear some opinions.
I don't get people who think masturbation is like cheating. I think people cut down more when they're sexually active -- not when they're just in a relationship. I find doing something with another person more satisfying & don't feel the need to masturbate as much. But, my boyfriend went away for university this year, so I don't get to do stuff with him when I please. We see each other roughly once a month for a weekend, so obviously we both masturbate. I probably do it once or twice a week. I'm not sure how often he does it though, since I don't really care if he masturbates or not.
Yeah, I agree with Amber. I don't think there's anything wrong with masturbation, and I definitely don't think of it as cheating when I'm in a relationship. I mean, I'm not going to be with the guy every minute of everyday, I don't even want to be - Obviously (hopefully) he's going to want to do something.
And well, I wouldn't really want to be with a guy who doesn't masturbate regularly, because then I think he'd want to go waay too fast, or not really know what he wants.. And either's not really all that good.