(6:35 PM) ☆ Kris ☆- : What did you learn from the last issue of Cosmo?
(6:35 PM) ☆ Kris ☆- : teach me something!!!
(6:36 PM) Jenn Watson: Ummm
(6:36 PM) Jenn Watson: Apparently guys nipples feel just as good as girls when you touch them
There you go Community Flow, there ya go!
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I made no resolutions for the New Year. The habit of making plans, of criticizing, sanctioning and molding my life, is too much of a daily event for me.
I read an article in some magazine when I was like 13 about how guys like to have their nipples stimulated, it sounded kinda weird to me. & whenever I go near my boyfriend's nipples he like freaks out. IS COSMO LYING TO US?!
... do you like to have your nipples touched, Kris?
Guys tend to be afraid of that kind of stimulation cuz its different. The whole prostate thing is always so taboo to (straight) guys cuz of the... well, location of stimulation! If they only opened themselves to it they would understand it more, and see what women have been complaining about all this time! It also differs from person to person. Some people arent stimulated the same way, so they dont get the sensation others do. Also sometimes it can be an overload on the senses and some people just cant take it. Some people like to be tickled cuz it "feels good" but im overly sensitive to tickling and I cant stand it!
Haha, yeah I know. I only found it weird because I was 13 -- & we all know what 13-year-olds are like. :p & I can totally understand the sensitivity thing, I'm not a huge fan of having my nipples touched. I only like it if it's really gentle.
I wish the whole prostate thing wasn't taboo! We've kind of talked about it before & he really likes it when I touch it from the outside, but I dunno if he'd go for it. I'm really curious, so I wanna try it.
But the question still stands: does Kris like having his nipples touched?! Haha.
9/10 times, guys and girls don't even know what makes them feel good.
Strange to say, being you think you would think you know every little inch and function of your own body, but chances are you don't.
The body is filled with many strange sensual things that sometimes are oddly placed, or even just need to be actvated by a certain stimulus to get the desired results.
Starting off with a good earlobe rub is one way, then moving to a massaging of the hands. Hands alone can be a great starter, for guys and girls alike.
Using firm pressure, massage the middle/mid-palm areas with your thumbs, gently jiggling the bones in their hand up and down, and using a good fluid motion. It'll get your prtner relaxed, and once you manage to get them relaxed, their other sensual areas become more easily stimulated.
Once relaxed, stay away from ticklish areas, as this'll spoil the relaxation due to the rapid tensing of the muscles. Those areas are usually the armpits, feet, under the chin/neck area, and in the groin area surrounding the area where the abdomen comes together with your legs (trust me, that area is just INSANELY uncomfortable).
Instead, once relaxed, use slow stimulation on the 'sweet spots'.
Glide your nails on his/her bottoms of their forearmsback and forth slowly, barely grazing the skin, back and forth....
In fact, try it now! Take the back of your nails and glide them from the bottom of your wrist to the pit of your elbow slowly....
Feels nice, no? Perhaps you can feel the sensual activity starting already.
Also, the inner thighs are grea for this sensual stimulation. Glide your fingertips along their inner thighs where their legs would come together if their legs are shut. Keep it slow and fluid.
Try starting with their legs closed, and working your hands around back and forth in the tightened space until you feel it's ready to open their legs, and continue to do so, slowly and fluidly.
After about 10 minutes, they'll be going ABSOLUTELY crazy with their pent-up sensual stimulation, and will want to go crazy on you/themselves. But remember, the slower, the better. By going VERY slow and keeping other areas stimulated in the process, you'll put your partner through a delightfully agonizing hour of build-up, ending in an insanely powerful.... result. xD A thousand times better than if it were quickly done.
Remember, the longer it goes, the more buildup is made,and the better it will be.
I doubt the statistic is that high... I read that over & I knew all of that information already.
But, I hate being touched on my earlobes. It doesn't feel nice at all. I guess different strokes for different folks.
& you totally didn't mention the back of the neck/inbetween the shoulder blades area! I looove being kissed, touched or breathed on there. It feels amazing.