My bf

Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 7:35 pm Post subject: My bf

ok urmmm here goes, recently ive began to hate my bf, and i want to break up with him because i like love him and don't want to have to hate him(does that make sense?), i hate him because he constantly ignores me and outright said he was embarrassed to be seen in public with me and yeah....what should i do?

Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 10:03 pm Post subject:

Breaking up with him doesn't mean that you are forced to hate him. He might hate you for breaking up with him, but you can feel any way about him. xD

But f he's embarrased to be with you in public, then how can you know that he cares for you? This seems like you're the only one putting work into this relationship. I think you should end it with this dude.

Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 10:06 pm Post subject:

Um yeah, the guy constantly ignores you and doesn't want to be seen with you - isn't it obvious that he wants you to break up with him?

You need to get the courage and tell him the truth and find someone better then that.

Posted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 11:52 am Post subject:

[quote="Sarah"]Breaking up with him doesn't mean that you are forced to hate him. He might hate you for breaking up with him, but you can feel any way about him. xD

But f he's embarrased to be with you in public, then how can you know that he cares for you? This seems like you're the only one putting work into this relationship. I think you should end it with this dude.[/quote]
ohhhh but i think he does care as in like i made him dry when i ws angry at him......but yeh i dont want him to hate me or vise versa.....

Posted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 10:56 am Post subject:

You made him dry? o.o; I don't understand...

But a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship has to work both ways for it to prosper. If you keep hanging on to something destined to be doomed, the whole thing will eventually collaspe, bringing you down with it.

There's at least one guy out there who would love to be with you, and would treat you much better than this guy. It's a big world. Don't hold back. [Smile]

Posted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 11:12 pm Post subject:

I get what you mean [Smile]

same thing happened to me 2 years ago.
its tough breaking up with someone who
you care about but dont want to date like,
personally i think you should do it but maybe
tell him you still wanna be friends and stuff

Posted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 11:32 pm Post subject:

I know this isn't going to sound good but just get rid of him he's trash if he can't even be proud to be seen with you.

I mean I can admit running through walmart with my girlfriend on my back or us flat out having full body contact in the store is embarassing for me but if he flat out ignores you flat out leave him.

Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 12:34 am Post subject:

If the douche' (censor me if you will) is too embarassed to be seen with you, then why be with him? Think about later down the road, will he be too afraid to invite his friends to your wedding because he's embarassed to be with you? If he hates you that much, leave him. It isnt worth the heartache in the end.