My boyfriend went to a fantasia party the other night & he bought me a vibrator. I'm visiting him right now (he's in class, so that's why I'm on here, haha) & I'm excited to try it. So out of my own curiosity, I have questions for you guys!
1. Do any of you use sex toys? Alone, with a partner or both?
2. What kind of toy is it?
3. If applicable, was your partner hesitant about bringing a toy into the scene?
I'll answer the questions first, so no one feels weird about being the first one to answer.
1. We haven't officially used it yet, but I'll say yes. & when we do use it, it'll be with a partner.
2. It's a Climax Gem Pink Diamond
3. Yes, when I first brought it up (after he turned 18 last year). I think he thought that it was a bit insulting, as if he wasn't doing a good enough job. But I told him that I thought it would be exciting & I'd prefer him over some rubber any day. I don't think he was totally convinced, but it's been a while since then & he's had time to think it over. He wanted to surprise me with the vibrator, but I found it before he got a chance, haha. Nevertheless, he's excited to try it out, too.
We don't use toys exactly but do keep things interesting with lotions and other edibles, new places etc... I honestly never considered really bringing a toy into it but that doesnt present more interesting ideas. Not sure how my spouse would feel about it...Only one way to find out though
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I've wanted to try the edible body paint stuff for so long! It seems fun. But we never get around to actually buying them. Hey, if you're interested in getting a toy there's no harm in talking to your partner about it. Who knows, they may be interested in trying it, too.