What are you looking for in a guy/girl?

This topic is for you to describe your "type". By this I don't mean your ultimate sexual fantasy partner, I mean the kind of person you look for for a relationship, the kind of attributes you always seem to have a crush on! What kind of traits does the most awesome guy/girl you can think of dating have?

For me, I want a guy who is comfortable with me, not nervous and awkward. I like guys who are strong, but not built like bodybuilders. I want a guy who is mature and who I can talk with without feeling like he's ignorant to topics that are important to me. He also needs to be able to be goofy and funny, tell me jokes and laugh at mine because we would have the same sense of humor. I want a guy who wants to care about me, not show me off as a trophy to his friends. I want him to be outgoing, but not in that obnoxious way some people are where they just show off. I hope that he is a good dresser. Also..he can't be TOO tall because I'm a shorty haha <3 [Smile]

Posted: Sun Mar 30, 2008 11:28 pm Post subject:

My type is my ultimate sexual fantasy partner anyways....why have fantasies if you aren't going to live them up?

125-200lbs
5'6"-6'
C+ cups (DD is best)
Brown hair
Fairly Athletic
Nerdy
Metalhead

Funny thing is I've already found someone that meets every requirement [Wink]

Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 7:12 am Post subject:

I hate when men look for women with a certain breast size. It probably bothers me because I have small breasts & very few men find that attractive. It's unfair. [Sad]

You didn't really list any personality traits, ct, so that leads me to believe you could be with a psycho bitch as long as she met those physical requirements & interests. You should probably add some more things to that list. That's just my opinion, though.

For me, I want a guy who is intelligent, funny & loyal. I want to be able just to sit around in my PJs with him all day & watch movies or just chat about nothing in particular. I want him to also be able to make me smile no matter what -- kind of like when you're little & somethings upsets you & you're crying, but your mother knows it's over something silly so she begins to tickle you & you don't want to laugh, but you end up laughing anyway. Then everything seems to be okay again.
He has to be a cuddle bug & not mind spending hours just cuddling with me. He has to be able to recognise when he has done wrong & be able to apologise for it & not hold grudges against me after I've apologised for the things I've done wrong.

The list goes on, but those are the main things. & of course, Oscar is all of those things. [Smile]

Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 2:26 pm Post subject:

A nice personality swings it for me..

Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 2:26 pm Post subject:

Are you telling the truth about a personality swings it for me?

Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 2:28 pm Post subject:

Yeah why wouldn't i be?

Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 3:45 pm Post subject:

Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 7:20 pm Post subject:

It just seemed odd to me that you couldn't describe a personality that would seem nice. Like, just even typical things like honest, loyal, trustworthy, kind, caring, etc. Funny doesn't have to be on that list if it's not for you. Maybe someone who doesn't flip out over the slightest things or isn't materialistic. Or you could flip around what you said at the bottom there & say you are attracted to someone who is emotionally stable & can keep her senses together around a hot guy.

& regarding the breast size thing, you can't deny that the majority of guys prefer average to larger sized breasts. [Razz]

I know there are men who like smaller breasts, but they are hard to find!

Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 7:51 pm Post subject:

Either way I find it hard to get all that mental stuff down to words like I can shapes and sizes...guess thats just the way us hands on people understand things best.

As far as the breast size things go, I've had to argue with guys who think that Bs and Cs are the perfect sizes and I once knew a bisexual girl that thought smaller and perkier was better and apparently her boyfriend liked hers.

Though yes despite the fact that I like bigger breasts than any guy I know personally statistically more people google big boobs than itty bitty titties.

Either way, any girl I've ever known with my favorite sizes wanted a reduction so between boys and health you probably didn't get the short end of the stick.

Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 5:10 pm Post subject:

for me i dont really care what kind of girl but i just want one who is nice and could take a joke and thats about it that was like my old gf

Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 9:29 pm Post subject:

For a girl physical wize, I don't care too much about size aslong as you know it's nothing unbearable aslong as they have nice eyes, and a good smile. And then I like the pretty much standard thing, someone who gets me jokes and can pop back a few of their own, is nice, and doesn't get mad for me wanting her to do some things that I like with her (videos games, sports)